One man said that flirting was a great way for women to attract men. Men love it when women flirt with them. But how is flirting done?
Flirting is of a playful nature. You cannot be a serious flirt. Flirting involves humor, risk, and a display of interest. It is so much similar to when boys used to tease you in grade school and you tease them back. It indicates interest in the other person, even when that interest may not be requited. It involves making the other person feel special without expecting anything in return. Flirting, then, puts you at risk for rejection.
Flirting is not confined to the men you like. You can flirt with anyone, anywhere, and anytime. Soon, flirting will become natural to you and you will find it easy to strike up a conversation with people you do not really know.
Flirting does not guarantee attraction. Although flirting is usually effective with most men, every flirt must still ready herself for possible rejection. Remember, do not take rejection personally. When you flirt with someone, you offer him the possibility of connection. If he doesn't want it, simply offer it to someone else.
On a closing note, I would like to add that flirting is immensely flattering. But then again, you know what they say, "Wherever there is a flatterer, there is also a fool.
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